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Frugal, natural, & fabulous beauty basics (and a lot you don’t need)

I think it’s a good idea to do a little homework on what in the world is IN  the stuff we slather all over our largest organ…our skin.  Most inexpensive products are made with cheap oils and waxes that do more harm than good.  The quality products are EXPENSIVE so what to do? 

The Oil Cleansing Method

I fee like I’m in on a little secret that most of the world doesn’t know…I wash my face with oil. Wait don’t click away, move the mouse away from that unsubscribe button, it’s not as crazy as you think.   

Washing your face with oil may sound weird and counteractive especially if you have oily skin but believe it or not oil does not cause acne or make you have an oily face.  Soap strips your face of it’s natural oils causing your skin to produce MORE oil to make up for what has been taken.  Even acne.org says “oil cleans oil.” 

I have been washing my face with a part olive oil, part castor oil mixture for almost two years now.  It is the only thing I need to remove my makeup, clean, AND moisturize.  My skin is very soft, not oily.  I love it!  Try getting all that for $10 a bottle (and it lasts for 6 months or more!). 

Details and step by step instructions here

Coconut Oil

I have a re-used baby food jar full of coconut oil on my bathroom counter.  I use it as my lotion, and a conditioner.  After I blow dry my hair I use just a “dab” on my ends as conditioner.  Coconut oil is an amazing product.  Lots of research shows us it can heal scars and even bruises!  There are plenty more details on the amazing product that is coconut oil here.

Shampoo Bars

If you are like me and just trying to get something to clean your hair, leave it feeling weightless, and prefer not to have 100 random things you cannot pronounce in the line up,  then allow me to introduce you to my friend, the shampoo bar:

The shampoo bar has seriously become one of my favorite things.  There are tons of yummy smelling varieties and I have NEVER, I mean never, had my hair been so cooperative! I have tried the “no poo method” and was not NEAR as satisfied as I am with the shampoo bar.  

No need for mouse, gel, spray, etc.  This is a big deal yall!  With hair as straight and volume-less as mine I used to be a hair product junkie. Now that my hair is not so heavy from waxy, yucky build up, I have some volume!  Plus I’m saving money buying less products!

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Back to basics: Canning for rookies

I have always admired people who were able to preserve all of the yummy produce that is plentiful in the summer.  Making delicious jellies and pickled…well…everything, stocking up to last all winter.  What a fun way to make all natural food at a fraction of the cost!

This season I set out to learn how to can.  I was intimidated, to say the least.  But after watching some “how to” you tube videos (which of-course makes me an expert) and reading a few articles, I decided to roll up my sleeves and give it a go. 

My first experience was when I made strawberry jam.  In “typical me” fashion I got a little too overzealous and tried to make it sugar-free using low or no sugar pectin.  This is possible but a little tricky so I don’t recommend it unless you know what you are doing…which of course I did not.  The jam wasn’t a complete waste however, we can still use it, but it taste much better with a little added honey and it didn’t “jell”  very well. 

My next experience was WAY more successful.  And now I am a canning addict!  I have made scuppernong jelly, pickles, salsa, pear preserves, and pear sauce (the pickles didn’t make the picture because we already ate them already!).


How to get lots of FREE and or CHEAP produce

  1. Pick your own.  Many farms offer pick your own produce and the cost is MUCH less than retail. 
  2. Check out the “reduced table” at the produce stand.  Many produce stands move their fruit and veggies that are getting old, or have blemishes to the reduced table.  This is the perfect place to get produce for canning because it all needs to be cut up anyway so it is easy to cut out the blemishes.  The only trick is be ready to can that day because the fruit needs to be preserved quickly! 
  3. Don’t be afraid to ask.  My sweet neighbor was the one generous enough to let me pick off her scuppernong grape vine for the jelly.  Most people who have fruit trees are happy to share their abundant crop.  You just have to ask. 

What do you need?

The only things you REALLY need are a large pot, jars and lids for canning, clean clothes, a ladle, and something to get the hot jars out of the boiling water. 

Although you can do without it, a canning funnel makes the job easier and less messy. 

Making the recipe to can

  1. Decide what to can.  If you already have a favorite homemade recipe then you are already half way there!  There are tons of great ones to choose from here and here.
  2. Have no idea where to start?  Almost anything can be canned.  What is your favorite summer fruit or veggie?  What do you buy the most of and could make your own instead?  If you need a good place to start I would suggest a pickling recipe as your first canning experience.  Tomato recipes need added lemon juice or citric acid to get the right pH and jellies are a little more tricky making sure they “jell”.

We made these pickles (without the peppers) YUM!

Fill and process

Once your recipe is made, fill the jars (leaving 1/2 inch space at the top for expansion).
Place lid and ring around the jar and tighten.  Then place jars in the boiling water bath.  There are all kinds of instructions of how long to let them boil depending on your elevation and what you are canning.

I am way too lazy to do all those calculations and I read most sources suggest boiling way too long…so I just boiled everything for 5-7 minutes with success every time!

Remove from hot bath and let cool on the counter. As the jars cool you may have to re-tighten as they can become loose with heat. 

In the next few hours you should hear all your jars POP.  This is the sign of a job well done!  If for some reason one of your jars didn’t seal (you can still press the center up and down) then store in the refrigerator or eat that one first. 

***Update!  Reader, Sabrina, added:

Don’t forget, once your jars are processed and cooled, remove the rings from the jar.  That way if there is ever a jar that goes bad, the lid can dislodge itself instead of the jar exploding.

Good to know!  Thanks Sabrina!

Now all you have to do is label, and enjoy! 

Have you ever canned?  Do you want to?  What are your thoughts? 

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Indecisiveness Anonymous

I have a horrible time making decisions.  Anyone else with me on this?  It’s not just the big ones either. 


 When Bryan and I were dating we were taking one of those personality tests.  The question was “are you decisive?” I immediately answered (as serious as can be) “Yes! Well…no, I don’t know what do you think?”  Then both of us busted out laughing.

I once spent a half hour trying to decide the most healthy snack I could find at a gas station.  I got frustrated for wasting so much time and ended up with a donut. 

Naming our children was also a HUGE decision.  I couldn’t commit.  What if we messed up and and named them something that meant something weird,  or said something offensive in the “banana” song…this is very important ya know. 

Suffice it to say I am horrible at making decisions. 

Often times I know what I want but the decisions that affect another person are much tougher.  I am your typical first born people pleaser and it pains me not to make everybody happy.  What if I pick Mexican for dinner but everyone else wanted Italian?  Oh the stress!

The wise Andy Stanly wrote a book on this subject (sheww I guess I’m not the only one with these issues)  suggesting us to ask “the best question ever” when making decisions.  Which is:

In light of my current situation and circumstances, what is the WISE thing for me to do. 

Sometimes my “current situation” refers being a wife and mom and sometimes, more specifically,  it means right here at this moment when faced with X decision what is the WISE thing for me to do. 

We just created afamily mission statement and I LOVE it.  It hangs on the wall reminding us of what is TRULY important.  When opportunities present themselves this mission statement gives me direction and FREEDOM to choose what is most important. 

I am learning to say no to the GOOD things so I can say yes to the BEST things.

I am learning to say OR instead of AND

I am learning just because I am available and CAN do something does not mean I SHOULD. 

I am learning to guard my time and be okay with (gasp!) not making everyone happy.  Trying to please everyone means I truly please no one.  Making the decisions that honor the Lord and my family are what are most important. 

I am in no way cured of being indecisive.  But taking a step back and looking for the WISE thing to do helps me decide regardless of the other circumstances. 

Now…what to cook for dinner????

Do you consider yourself decisive or indecisive?

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Custom Family Mission Statement

Every intentional family needs a reminder of what is important now and again.  Family mission statements are all the rage in the blogging world.  You can read about them at:

Passionate Homemaking

Simple Mom

We are that family

Inspired to action

and a host of others I’m sure. 

Why have a mission statement?  Everyday we have a million things we can do with our time.  There are good choices, and then there are the best choices.  A mission statement  helps us to determine what is MOST IMORTANT, and freedom to ignore everything else. 

My husband and I sat down on the couch and listed out all the adjectives we could think of that we want our family to reflect.  He listed several and so did I.  The ones that we felt most important, and the ones we had in common were the words we decided to use in our mission statement. 

I wouldn’t be my imperfect self if I went with the crowd and did a traditional full sentence “statement.”  Alexander Creative came up with this BEAUTIFUL poster designed with just with our key “mission” words

 

Pretty stinkin cool huh?  I want to invite all my friends over just to stare at it with me.  I am elated over it!

Don’t have a family mission statement? There are great tips on making your own here!

I highly recommend Alexander Creative when you are ready to get your own!

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I am an ImPeRfEcT Christian

I know how I am SUPPOSED to live, but a lot of times I miss the mark.

I know what I am SUPPOSED to say, but often I say what I want instead. 

What others want doesn’t always come before what I want.

I love spending time with Jesus…but often I’m “too busy.”

I like to be liked. I’m a people pleaser and not always a God pleaser. 

I sometimes think my “kingdom” is more important than God’s kingdom.

I have two ears and one mouth but often I would rather talk than listen. 

I tell God I will go wherever and do whatever he leads…and then list my exceptions.

I see “Advanced Christians” becoming missionaries, and selling all their possessions and then I see my “Remedial Christianity” who can hardly overcome the temptation of cake!

Then the Lord whispers, “Congratulations, you are ordinary and I can use you.”

He doesn’t want me to be perfect he just wants me to be available. 

I am here Lord, to be used by you.  Take what you will of this messy, unorganized, and unspiritual person and make me into something you can use for your kingdom. 

Use my imperfect words to speak your truth, use my imperfect home to welcome in guests, and use my imperfect faith to show how truly amazing you are. 

Thinking we have to have the bible memorized before we share our faith, means our faith will never be shared.

Thinking we have to be advanced Christians to do something awesome, means we will take a back seat and never see God do anything great through us. 

Trying to make ourselves “good enough” to make a difference will never happen.  God thinks that we are good enough today, just as we are.  

We are works in progress that will never be complete this side of heaven.  In the mean time, let’s dive in, get our hands dirty and enjoy the fulfilled life He promises!

I love you imperfect people! 

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